Am I too needy?

Well, just asked if i was doing something wrong, and recieved some kind answers but one girl brought up a good point... she asked if i was being too needy?





I do not think i am, because i honestly dont give a crap if i have a girlfriend or not for the time being. I am pursuing a career in Orthodontics and am very secure about being single for a few years (honestly, dont care either way).





The problem was that whenever i make plans with a female i get stood up... i show that i am excited to hang out with them, because i am (not desperately or anything) and i do not express that i dont care if i have a girlfriend or not (so they wont think i'm just using them, because of my indifference)....





So, the main question here is, what would be signs to a girl that a guy is needy? I dont think of myself as needy but maybe i am throwing some flares up that makes them think otherwise?

Am I too needy?
You don't sound needy to me. Don't forget that what you type here is interpretted by different people different ways, and that person that made that comment about you doesn't actually know you and what you're like in real life.





I think you just haven't met the right girl hun. Good luck in finding her :)
Reply:i dont really ur needy ur just you and thats what you do. the girl in the other hand..well i think their the ones who r need ... but not all